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Why is my relationship so f**ked and how do I fix it?

Are You Feeling Stuck, Confused or Hurt?

  • Sick of the same arguments over and over again with no resolution?

  • Wondering why love feels so hard or why you can't find it in the first place?

  • Feeling trapped in a relationship you can't seem to fix but can't leave either?

  • Exhausted by feeling unloved, unappreciated, or completely suffocated?

  • Confused about whether to fight for it or finally walk away?

You're Not Alone. And It's Not Your Fault.

You’re just working with a relationship blueprint you never knew you had.
(And yes, it’s probably messing with other areas of your life too!)

Join the Relationship Alchemist, Jess Reed-Robbins, for a Transformative 2-Hour Online Session!

Jess will reveal what's going wrong and how to fix it, using her unique approach to relationship blueprints

 

She will:

 

✔ Demystify Relationship Blueprints:
Learn how the subconscious maps formed in the first 7 years of your life are sabotaging your relationships—from love to career and everything in between.

✔ Identify Your 7 Relationship Dynamic Keys:
Discover the 7 keys driving your relationship dynamics and learn which ones are keeping you stuck in the same old toxic patterns. Traditional counselling only tackles one or two of these keys. You need all 7 to break free.

✔ Help You Identify Your Attachment Styles:
Understand your attachment style (and your partner’s), how they clash, and why it feels like you’re speaking two different languages.

✔ Help You Identify Your Triggers and Patterns:
Pinpoint the hidden patterns, prime concerns, and core beliefs that are behind every fight, every disappointment, and every broken heart.

✔ Explain How Emotional Needs Make Any Relationship Work:
Find out what you’re really craving in love and why not getting it is hurting you more than you realise. Jess will explain the importance of understanding you and your partners emotional needs and how they are the key to making every relationship work, with anyone!

✔ Essential Communication Skills:
Jess will cut out the noise and share 3 of the most vital communication skills you need in order to have an amazing relationship with anyone, including your partner, kids and your boss.

✔ Understand Polarity & Attraction:
Jess will explain how love is often the killer of passion and that physical attraction can be something that grows over time and never dies.


Plus, Jess Will Answer Your Toughest Questions, Like:

  • How can I change my blueprint for better relationships?

  • How do I let go of the past and truly move on?

  • Why am I always attracted to the same toxic type?

  • Should I stay and fight for this or cut my losses and walk away?
     

Register now and join us for an enlightening journey that will help you map out the causes of your relationship struggles and finally find a solution.

 

Who is this for?
 

🔹 Singles who are sick of dating the same person, just in a different body.
🔹 Couples who are sick of fighting or feeling like strangers.
🔹 People stuck in a relationship where their partner just won’t change (or won’t even admit there’s a problem).
🔹 Anyone who’s thinking about leaving but can't.
🔹 Couples who actually want to fix things but don’t know how.
🔹 Coaches who want to understand the deeper psychology behind relationship dynamics to get better results for their clients.

 

If you’re ready to finally find the f**king solution, Register Now!

Multiple dates available!


 

Jessica Reed-Robbins, The Relationship Alchemist

Why "the relationship alchemist"?

I married my husband Nick, in June 2016 and we had the most beautiful wedding in Italy surrounded by our amazing friends.

But honestly, it was a miracle that we made it that far. We'd started out as friends 6 years before that, and due to our mutual passion for training NLP, we ended up working and spending a lot of time together. Over time, we grew closer and eventually we decided to give a romantic relationship a chance.

For about 3 days, neither of us could believe our luck. We had actually found the love of our lives, all the love songs finally made sense and we were on cloud 9.
We couldn't stop smiling! We thought it was the best decision we had ever made!

Then after work one evening, I made a silly remark about a parking ticket. It caused Nick to feel attacked and that was that! His blueprint had been activated, the wall came down and I became the enemy. His sudden coldness activated my fear of rejection and I became confused, hurt and angry!

We had walked blindfolded into the minefield of each other’s relationship blueprints and our lives imploded. We triggered old emotional patterns and trauma that made it difficult to stay together. I was so hurt and so bewildered and no amount of talking seemed to make a difference. I felt unwanted and angry and he felt attacked and unsafe.

Despite this, we desperately wanted to be together so we persevered.
At times it felt like our inner children were clinging to each other for dear life, whilst our adult selves tore strips off each other. Through utter determination and compassion, we not only healed our relationship but also transformed the blueprints that had caused so much pain and trauma in our early childhood.

If we had known then, what we know now, we could have resolved things so much faster. With fewer tears and it would have taken a few months not years.

However, this personal journey gave us a deeper understanding of the struggles our clients face. We can quickly identify the causes of our client's issues and create the roadmap to help them restore love and harmony.

We can fully empathise with how hard it is to find compassion when you're so angry and hurt, but we've done it and we want to share the map with you...

I have such a passion for sharing what I know with others, so that no one ever needs to go through what we went through! ​

I can't wait to demystify relationships for you!

Feel free to visit my website www.relationship-alchemist.com before the session and book a free coaching call with me to discuss your needs one to one.

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